Every relationship is made of two people's stories- shaped by upbringing, culture, and everything that came before this one- and a third story: the relationship's own, being written by the two of you together. These stories don't always move in sync. Sometimes that shows up as friction, sometimes as distance, sometimes only as a quiet confusion about why something that should feel simple keeps feeling hard.
And yet you found each other. Underneath it all is usually something that drew you together in the first place- shared values, a particular kind of care, a way of showing up for one another that first made this relationship feel like home.
I work with couples who are ready to look closely at how you each communicate, understand conflict and care, and carry the weight of where you come from. Together, we slow down and notice the patterns, tracing where they began, without losing sight of what brought you here.
Areas of focus include communication and conflict, intimacy and connection, life transitions, cross-cultural relationships, family dynamics, trust and repair, and the shared work of building meaning together.
Our work together relies on both tenderness and curiosity- honoring what is sensitive between you while making space for the story to grow. Not toward who you were told a couple should be, but toward who you're choosing to become, together.